before anything else . . .

Be yourself

No matter what we are talking about, the clarification of a project and its implementation or looking for a work, having to make a choice, or having to deal with a neurosis, having to deal with our own aggressivity / passivity that might be particularly high and uncontrolled. . .

Isn't the key just being ourself ?

"Ah! What a challenge ! Easy to say !"  are you saying ?

May be easier said than done, I grant you that ! !

But feasible, that I can assure you !

I do not think this statement is an utopia,
I think instead that it is the most very important and very real project that I can imagine

It's a more or less long and easy path to go through, can be painful at times, depending on our personal story and what we want to achieve 

It takes time and blossoms little by little

We can discover ourself without having the will to do it, working on other points and letting our unconscious mind working for us and organising our thoughts and feelings for us

Working on discovering our true self is a step by step process, with moments of doubt and moments of clearness and calm that help us move on our way

Those times of well-being are important as they bring along the way a natural feeling of personal freedom and provide the soft yet strong power of a deep secure feeling, independant of other people's thoughts

"Stop being cut off from yourself and stop living with a false self (...)"

said Alice Miller, psychoanalyst, Philosophy Ph.D., who gradually moved away from traditional psychoanalysis

The starting point?

Your will, sometimes your need to find you, to love you

The means?

Your will, sometimes your need to find you,  to love you

;o) 

With who?

You !

And at times helped by a professional for their experience, knowledge, and the necessary emotional distance with your personal story

Ready ?
Steady ? 

Go! ! !

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