mercredi 6 avril 2011

Expatriates' Wednesdays;About chosing, again !



I am bouncing again on the vast and rich subject of making choices

I think it concerns the expatriate life as much as the life of those of us whoare geograhically moving less;

We considered several approaches for making a choice through my previous articles and mentioned the importance of giving ourself a time during which we decide not to depart from our decision
This is to maintain consistency and recognition of our time of reflection

But what can challenge a choice that may well have taken time for being established ?
Dissatisfaction, a sense of discomfort that can be expressed in many negative ways like distress, sadness, anxiety, functional disorders (eating, sleeping ...), change in behavior, depressive tendencies, apathy. . .

It is always better reconsider one's choice to possibly change it rather than remaining in a negative situation which may only lead you and maybe people around you further down
One choice is like dough, its appearance can be changed; colors, shapes ... the way you wish

During an experience of expatriation, which begins even before the geographical relocation, we have a cascade of choices to make; from the simplest to more complex ones that can engage the family in the medium or long term

We can sometimes make a choice based on information that appears to be false later on. . . it happened to me and it can be uneasy to digest, Ouch!

But then why not choosing to reshape the dough differently? !

Who will benefit ?

Letting go of our ego and our judgments of the situation now obsolete can  boost us for better

Unlike what is often believed, the choice is ours

Yep! It turns out that we have this crazy ability to be responsible for our lives !

Do not hang on a situation is a guarantee of more freedom

I wish you a beautiful day !

Here in Rio, we have clouds, a nice little wind and about 24 ° C
Fabulous !
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