How about you instead of blaming the others ?

You'll have to twist your head ! 

When you feel hurt, irritated, threatened by someone: a word, a behavior . . .

Have you found your way to face this particular situation / this particular person  ?

If you have tried and ended in ‘failure’ up to now;

Be sure that there are other ways to investigate

Thinking back and going through your personal life history related to that person or that very behavior is always rich and opens to new options. It is then about working on the redundancy of an ‘action – reaction’ model that has been endorsed as being the only valid . . . which isn’t true.

We can always modify a scheme if we decide to work on it.

Recognizing the emotions involved, working on them and possibly modify them to understand them better instead of undergoing them

Putting in place protections,  modifying one’s environment . . .

And many other possibilities can be considered for each of you and each situation

This being said, one point and only one is essential if you want a change:

Modifying your positioning

Nor the other’s

You will never be able to change the other person’s positioning if they do no consent to do so. Never.

How could you ?

What would give you the right to do so ? Except if there is a legal issue, obviously

Stop listing your complaints . . . it will worsen your morale and won’t help

Act

Find a different positioning and stick to your choice

This freeing can be done going through steps, including sometimes uncertainty, fear . . .

Though at the end, you are the winner of your own freedom that allows you to be your true-self !

As I have said so many times; this is not a ‘war’ against someone else,

this is finding a new way by working on yourself.

Have a wonderful week !

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