'detail', foz do Igaçu, Brasil
Here is a
link below to an article I find very spot on, regarding expatriation and
Parenthood.
Yes, I am
saying parenthood as I think it is highly important to reintroduce the father
in the story.
Really a major point.
You will
understand it is not to be a basic feminist that I am saying that.
The
children need both their parents to be there for them, at a different place.
The one who
is an employee, mostly fathers in current social reality, have less time to be
there on a daily basis and yes, the mothers have to deal with a lot of the
daily chores.
He can be present is many different ways.
He first
has to feel responsible about what is happening to his children and not
thinking that whatever is happening will be fine as his wife is dealing with
it.
No.
Not enough.
Feeling responsible is truly willing to know what is
happening.
On their
side, women can make the father be present by talking about him, referring to
him when making decision,
This is how
to get a balanced emotional reference for the children.
This is important
in any situation when one parent, for any reason (expatriation, divorce …
sometimes), isn’t there to deal with daily routine / emotions in their children’s
life.
Resilience
Is another
point I feel like adding my word about;
All humans
can be resilient.
We have inside us resources we discover through our life path
when it becomes difficult.
Children
probably more as they are more likely to be supple in their beliefs.
Though, not
all of them.
They also
are so dependent of their parents that they often don’t question the
expatriation.
Do not
believe that one expatriation will be like another.
They all are different and
you can always be surprised by the reactions, positive and / or negative of
each member of the family. Children and parents.
Your heart
I cannot
agree more on the fact that the more women and men are profoundly convinced of
their choice, the more chance all will be easier for adults and kids.
If the
project comes from the heart, you are at the right place for everything t flow
beautifully well !
If it doesn’t,
do not stay with your suffer.
Do not stay alone.
Friends and
a professional can help, each for different issues.
Here is the
link for the article:
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