mercredi 24 avril 2013

Expatmothers . . . I would say parenthood,

'detail', foz do Igaçu, Brasil




Here is a link below to an article I find very spot on, regarding expatriation and 

Parenthood.

Yes, I am saying parenthood as I think it is highly important to reintroduce the father in the story.

Really a major point.

You will understand it is not to be a basic feminist that I am saying that.

The children need both their parents to be there for them, at a different place.

The one who is an employee, mostly fathers in current social reality, have less time to be there on a daily basis and yes, the mothers have to deal with a lot of the daily chores.

He can be present is many different ways.

He first has to feel responsible about what is happening to his children and not thinking that whatever is happening will be fine as his wife is dealing with it. 

No. 

Not enough. 

Feeling responsible is truly willing to know what is happening.

On their side, women can make the father be present by talking about him, referring to him when making decision,

This is how to get a balanced emotional reference for the children.

This is important in any situation when one parent, for any reason (expatriation, divorce … sometimes), isn’t there to deal with daily routine / emotions in their children’s life.


Resilience

Is another point I feel like adding my word about;

All humans can be resilient. 

We have inside us resources we discover through our life path when it becomes difficult.

Children probably more as they are more likely to be supple in their beliefs.

Though, not all of them.

They also are so dependent of their parents that they often don’t question the expatriation.

Do not believe that one expatriation will be like another. 
They all are different and you can always be surprised by the reactions, positive and / or negative of each member of the family. Children and parents.

Your heart

I cannot agree more on the fact that the more women and men are profoundly convinced of their choice, the more chance all will be easier for adults and kids.

If the project comes from the heart, you are at the right place for everything t flow beautifully well !

If it doesn’t, do not stay with your suffer. 

Do not stay alone.


Friends and a professional can help, each for different issues.

Here is the link for the article:




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