mercredi 18 juillet 2012

Focusing too much leads to lack of efficiency !


The Lençois, Noredeste of Brasil
Some time ago, I wrote down a testimony on my Professional FB page. It came from a person who did participate to the expatriate support group that I am running in Rio.
"... You helped me open doors that I didn't see any more as I was so concentrated on "reaching". Thank you for your fine listening."
It is helpful to realise this, whatever the aim you are going for.
In your process to achieve what it is you want to obtain, have a phase when you do not concentrate on what you want to aim for; on the contrary, let go of the control freak in you, let you brain wander where it wants to go, you can trust it as it knows clearly where you want to go; so your thoughts won’t be disconnected.
It will make you discover very interesting new paths full of richness and possibilities that you haven’t thought of;
Following the same idea, have you noticed that when you try to retrieve information / a name, the best way to get it is to stop concentrating too intensively as it does block your brain in a “Gosh ! I will get it or what ?” and may well stay stuck with you being pretty frustrated.
If you chose to leave it and think about something else, you loosen your thoughts and your brain suddenly is offering the information to you when it has quietly completed its memory job.
Concentrating too much is ending like the horses which have those pieces of leather beside their eyes to stop them from looking anywhere else but in front of them. No other information can be taken in then. None. It is as if their world is cut from the rest.
When you focus a lot, you close many doors, you narrow your perception.
It is sometimes very useful though and sometimes very amputating.
Last night, with my husband and the children, we were having our dessert and D. absolutely wanted to share a video with us.
It is a very funny illustration of what I am explaining here.
I bet you will have fun !
Isn’t incredible ? !
Wishing you a fabulous week !


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